Comments on: Do You Have a Friend Who is a Loser? Get Rid of Em! http://www.persuasive.net/do-you-have-a-friend-who-is-a-loser-get-rid-of-em Wed, 16 May 2012 17:19:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: JonSnow http://www.persuasive.net/do-you-have-a-friend-who-is-a-loser-get-rid-of-em#comment-65319 JonSnow Mon, 30 Apr 2012 18:02:18 +0000 http://www.persuasive.net/?p=461#comment-65319 If this post and most of the comments here are indicitive of a contemporary social concept of friendship then the concept itself is in decline towards a materialistic, ultimately meaningless thing. True friendship is experienced, not defined in these ugly terms of yours. If this post and most of the comments here are indicitive of a contemporary social concept of friendship then the concept itself is in decline towards a materialistic, ultimately meaningless thing. True friendship is experienced, not defined in these ugly terms of yours.

]]> By: Josh http://www.persuasive.net/do-you-have-a-friend-who-is-a-loser-get-rid-of-em#comment-61625 Josh Mon, 16 Apr 2012 14:35:10 +0000 http://www.persuasive.net/?p=461#comment-61625 Maybe you put your expectations a little high for yourself maybe people look at you as a loser think about it we all have our different criteria of a loser Maybe you put your expectations a little high for yourself maybe people look at you as a loser think about it we all have our different criteria of a loser

]]> By: hei http://www.persuasive.net/do-you-have-a-friend-who-is-a-loser-get-rid-of-em#comment-60737 hei Sun, 08 Apr 2012 16:52:46 +0000 http://www.persuasive.net/?p=461#comment-60737 mostly people who are losers are the ones who turns out successful. so I don't underestimate them cause all of us are capable of something. I think the only way to success is to be yourself and don't let anyone tell you what you should do or what you should be. mostly people who are losers are the ones who turns out successful.
so I don’t underestimate them cause all of us are capable of something.

I think the only way to success is to be yourself and don’t let anyone tell you what you should do or what you should be.

]]> By: harold http://www.persuasive.net/do-you-have-a-friend-who-is-a-loser-get-rid-of-em#comment-60018 harold Wed, 28 Mar 2012 11:39:53 +0000 http://www.persuasive.net/?p=461#comment-60018 Hey Kumar...get me to white castle...its almost time for my loser self to flip your sliders...you must be a millionaire by now with this mindset....good luck bill gates Hey Kumar…get me to white castle…its almost time for my loser self to flip your sliders…you must be a millionaire by now with this mindset….good luck bill gates

]]> By: Rose_Bud http://www.persuasive.net/do-you-have-a-friend-who-is-a-loser-get-rid-of-em#comment-58955 Rose_Bud Mon, 12 Mar 2012 01:01:39 +0000 http://www.persuasive.net/?p=461#comment-58955 Well thats pretty amazing, I have been trying for almost years too now. And I am finally starting to put my foot down. I have recently been only sweeping the dirt out of my way, but i can no longer stand the build up of filth that pollutes my life. I changed my life completely, I use to be a partier, When i was 19 and 20. But then i decided to go to college, i willed my self, pulled it all together, and have been getting the best mark of my life (A's) in college and university studies. It's been 3 years that i have been working on this. and i only have one set back, my boyfriend! but he is only part to blame, it's his loser friends he choices to be with. They all moved away, and for a year our relationship was awesome, now one of them i back, and the frustration and fighting is back. I hate it, I hate my self for putting up with it, if i wasn't around the corner from my final exams I would leave. But i'm stuck for this little bit, and i am going to make the best of it, I am going to try and get my point across, (but i already know that won't work) So i am pre-pairing myself for a heart ache of my lifetime. We will have been together for 5 years this may, not all the best times, but i grew up up with him, he made me grow up, and now i'm trying to make him grow up even more. He is a good guy, but is to easily manipulated (he is weak) and i don't want a weak man by my side ( or one thats doing drugs) Now his cousin is in the ICU from overdosing on drugs (he is a pill and coke addict). He has already lost one of his friends from getting mixed up with the wrong people, now he is going to lose a family member as well. And it's only a matter of time until he loses me, I know people don't change! But what I don't know is how to deal with it, how to you let go of someone that has made ur life better, but now I want and need much more. Here's to thinking I had it figured out Heres for starting a new life alone Well thats pretty amazing, I have been trying for almost years too now. And I am finally starting to put my foot down. I have recently been only sweeping the dirt out of my way, but i can no longer stand the build up of filth that pollutes my life.
I changed my life completely, I use to be a partier, When i was 19 and 20. But then i decided to go to college, i willed my self, pulled it all together, and have been getting the best mark of my life (A’s) in college and university studies.
It’s been 3 years that i have been working on this. and i only have one set back, my boyfriend! but he is only part to blame, it’s his loser friends he choices to be with. They all moved away, and for a year our relationship was awesome, now one of them i back, and the frustration and fighting is back.
I hate it, I hate my self for putting up with it, if i wasn’t around the corner from my final exams I would leave.
But i’m stuck for this little bit, and i am going to make the best of it, I am going to try and get my point across, (but i already know that won’t work)
So i am pre-pairing myself for a heart ache of my lifetime. We will have been together for 5 years this may, not all the best times, but i grew up up with him, he made me grow up, and now i’m trying to make him grow up even more.
He is a good guy, but is to easily manipulated (he is weak)
and i don’t want a weak man by my side ( or one thats doing drugs)
Now his cousin is in the ICU from overdosing on drugs (he is a pill and coke addict).
He has already lost one of his friends from getting mixed up with the wrong people, now he is going to lose a family member as well.
And it’s only a matter of time until he loses me,
I know people don’t change!
But what I don’t know is how to deal with it, how to you let go of someone that has made ur life better, but now I want and need much more.

Here’s to thinking I had it figured out
Heres for starting a new life alone

]]> By: Xence http://www.persuasive.net/do-you-have-a-friend-who-is-a-loser-get-rid-of-em#comment-57643 Xence Thu, 23 Feb 2012 15:00:22 +0000 http://www.persuasive.net/?p=461#comment-57643 Well here I am 3 years later of my original post. Never thought I'd be back here but after several several failed attempts to get rid of the "guy with the christmas tree" ... I have SUCCEEDED! I tried all manner of things but what it finally came down to was me just ignoring almost ANYTHING he would send, call, etc. I put a call/text blocker in my phone which just made it so I wouldn't even see him calling/texting me. For emails I set up a few simple rules that just completely rejected his emails so I never saw them. I have since relaxed those strict rules just a bit, he bothers me now but I only respond if/when I'm good & ready! Which is maybe once a week .... at most, he was going crazy because I don't/won't respond to most of his comments or otherwise. This has settled down now though to a dull roar & I'm hearing from him less & less so he is finally getting the message. Given a very short period of time I doubt I'll hear from him at all. My loser issue is now in my control. LOSERS BEWARE! lol Cheers, Xence Well here I am 3 years later of my original post. Never thought I’d be back here but after several several failed attempts to get rid of the “guy with the christmas tree” … I have SUCCEEDED! I tried all manner of things but what it finally came down to was me just ignoring almost ANYTHING he would send, call, etc. I put a call/text blocker in my phone which just made it so I wouldn’t even see him calling/texting me. For emails I set up a few simple rules that just completely rejected his emails so I never saw them.

I have since relaxed those strict rules just a bit, he bothers me now but I only respond if/when I’m good & ready! Which is maybe once a week …. at most, he was going crazy because I don’t/won’t respond to most of his comments or otherwise. This has settled down now though to a dull roar & I’m hearing from him less & less so he is finally getting the message. Given a very short period of time I doubt I’ll hear from him at all.

My loser issue is now in my control.

LOSERS BEWARE! lol

Cheers,
Xence

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