Have you ever influenced someone to do something or buy something? Then after they made the decision, there was an opposing influence greater than your own which caused them to reconsider. Most of you are nodding your head YES. It seems as if no matter how good you are at persuading someone, people can easily [...]
Can You Persuade Someone and Not Be There?
by AJ Kumar on 15. Jan, 2009 in Objection Handlers, Persuasive Linguistics
When The Going Gets Tough, The Tough Gets Going
by AJ Kumar on 31. Dec, 2008 in Goals, Mindset, Personal Development
Donald Trump told a story about himself to his daughter Ivanka in the backseat of a limo driving in New York City. They were halted to a red light and saw a bum pan handling for money. Donald turned to his daughter and told her that the bum sitting on the curb actually has a higher [...]
Get People to Tell You Yes!
by AJ Kumar on 22. Dec, 2008 in Personal Development, Persuasive Linguistics
Being persuasive is key for anyone to be successful in life. Whether you are selling a product, a service, or yourself, you are essentially getting prospects to buy. Sometimes, it can be easy, but most of the time, it requires skill and work to get someone to SAY YES. We are cognitive beings that are [...]
Condition Yourself for Success
by AJ Kumar on 20. Dec, 2008 in Building Rapport, Mindset, Personal Development
As a child I was quiet and would keep to myself because of this I was perceived as being submissive and shy, I continued to be this way thru ought my teenage years up until I took part in the personal development industry. What’s interesting is how I developed to be that way. Because I [...]
How to Win an Argument
by AJ Kumar on 18. Dec, 2008 in Objection Handlers
The ultimate goal for an argument is not to have a contest to see who can yell the loudest, it’s about having the other person(s) believe and agree on your point of view. Being a powerful communicator means that you must be able to
Food is the New Weather
by AJ Kumar on 17. Dec, 2008 in Building Rapport
Many people have a hard time having a conversation with people that they DON’T know. In many cases, it’s because they are unsure of what to talk about. I was surprisingly very shy as a child and throughout my teen years. Having conversations with complete strangers practically caused me to cringe! Throughout my years of [...]
Create a Goal – Make it Work
by AJ Kumar on 16. Dec, 2008 in Goals, Personal Development
Has there ever been a time when you decided to write down your goals and then never looked at them again? Why do you think that is? Beside the fact that only 50% of the world are motivated by goals, most people are simply too lazy, careless, or just forget. The only way that goals can [...]
The Pursuit of Happiness
by AJ Kumar on 14. Dec, 2008 in Mindset, Personal Development
I need to get a relationship, that might make me happy. I need to find a better job, maybe that will make me happy. I need to be rich, then I’ll BE HAPPY for sure! We all think that happiness will come in the future after something is attained or accomplished. Unfortunately, this is a [...]
The Needs That Influence the Way We Live Our Lives
by AJ Kumar on 13. Dec, 2008 in Objection Handlers, Personal Development
Certainty – Humans are beings of comfort and complacency. It is true that there is no guaranteed certainty, however, we much want certainty that we will live to see tomorrow, that the electricity works, you still have your job. Uncertainty – Ironically, with too much certainty our lives would simply be
NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming
by AJ Kumar on 11. Dec, 2008 in Personal Development
The 1970s and 80s were a boom-time in applied psychology. EST, TM and a host of other self-help and interpersonal relationship methods sprang up, took the spotlight for awhile and then died off. The roots of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) lie in this same fertile soil and the movement to explain and explore human interactions. Unlike [...]
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